Is it possible to miss your Destiny?

Hiroyuki Miyazaki
How are you?
I hope you and your loved ones are safe and peaceful.

Today I'd like to share with you a question that I received recently:

"I learned that destiny happens no matter what. But I also heard that we all have free will to make different decisions.
Does that mean that is it possible to miss my destiny?"

What do you think?

The answer is - yes, you can miss your destiny. 

Let me explain why. By definition, destiny is "a predetermined course of events often held to be an irresistible power or agency." (Merriam-Webster)

Who predetermined the events? You did.
You, as a soul, planned various events before you came into this lifetime.

However, to arrive at such events, you need to follow your heart (not your brain) because your soul talks to you through your heart.

My example

For example, I believe I was destined to become a healer to help particular group of people.

Before becoming a healer, there were various decisions that led me to this path - registering for healing workshop, getting certified as a healing teacher, starting to offer healing sessions and workshops, leaving a corporate job to be a full time healer, and so on.

In each of these decisions, I had good chances of NOT following my heart and making different decision, which would have made me stay being in a corporate job.

But I chose to follow my heart. Why? because I wanted to change my life.

It was scary though. I had good chance of NOT following my path because of fear and doubt.

These moments of decisions are what we call "divine timing" where we choose a new path or to stay in the same path. Diving timings will take place no matter what. However, whether you take the new path or not is totally up to your free will. Therefore, yes you can miss your destiny.

How can I fulfill my destiny?

Then the next natural question would be, "how can I make sure to follow my path for destiny?"

The key is listening to your heart, because your soul talks to you through your heart.

What prevents you from following your heart is fear.
Fear of change, fear of failure, fear of making mistakes, fear of becoming alone, etc.

This is why it's important to liberate yourself from negative emotions, so that you can trust yourself, trust your life, and make the leap of faith in following your heart.

What to do?

Ok, then what exactly should you do?

Take time for yourself to work on these topic extensively so that you can resolve your deep-seated emotions and limiting beliefs. 

One of my courses, "Discover Your Phoenix 1" course is a perfect workshop for this purpose. 
Join me in my workshop and let's work to unleash your true potential and fulfill your destiny to the fullest!


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